What to Expect

A gathering of really nice HIV positive heterosexuals. Over the years, one of the hallmarks of Guys And Girls is that we continually attract a very nice, diverse group of quality people. We are also known for selecting attractive quality NYC venues. One of the things the original founders sought to avoid were the physical spaces that had an 'institutional' feeling to them. You will find us using commercial spaces that are very successful on their own right. Guys And Girls has nothing against florescent light bulbs or basement meeting rooms. However, we have never used a room in a basement, or one lit with fluorescent light bulbs.

Who Can Join?

Anyone who identifies as an HIV positive heterosexual. Since 1995 99% of our events have been held on the island of Manhattan. We have hosted and planned events in New Jersey, and may do so again. By and large, you can expect Guys And Girls events to occur in New York City; as we are a New York based group.

How to Join

We are an e-mail invitation based networking effort. What this means to you is that we send e-mails to announce and otherwise publicize our upcoming events. You will need to send us three bits of information to join our e-mail list to receive invitations for upcoming events.

  1. Male or female gender
  2. The city
  3. The state you reside in

Please send this information to

At this point we don’t want or need your name or any other sort of personal information. We have a few reasons for this. First, your privacy is the most important reason. We don't post upcoming events locations on the internet, we announce events by email. We don’t want people to be able to simply walk into events posted on a web site. Second, we are sometimes limited to the number of people that can attend any particular event. We also strive for gender balance at events. And given this website can be seen by people all over the country and the world, we want to make and send targeted invitations based on your location.